I have been seeing a client for around 5 months. In that time, he has spent at least $70k on me in bookings and gifts. He has a medical issue, so he doesn’t even do FS. Sounds like a dream, right? Not so much…

He is highly intelligent, but also arrogant and bitter. He expects me to text him non stop - which I had done, since the money and gifts were so good. But because of various things (not respecting my boundaries (example: he wanted to see me a second time on a tour, and I told him I had to fly out early. He literally checked all the flights on my airline that day and said “You do not have an early flight - the only flight on American to that destination is at 4pm”)

Another time I was sleeping and didn’t respond to him, so he went to my hotel lobby and waited for me!!! How insane is that?

He literally follows me on every single tour - no matter where, he flies there to see me. He is saying I am the most important person in his life and that he cannot survive without me. Hello, I am a companion!

When I broke it off, he threatened to write an awful review of me. I flipped and long story short, I gave him another chance. I have since reconsidered, and told him as much.

He has not stopped texting me and is utterly panicked! I don’t know what to do. I do feel badly, but he ruined it by threatening to write that bad review.

I would appreciate any advice.