We’ve been together for some time and she’s evolved into wanting to follow her female-sexual curiosities. I’m certainly here to support her, and when the benefits of some openness fall on me as well, I’ll be happy. But not trying to force myself into the picture as she grows within hers.

This said, I am the more sexual of us two and am quite adept at flirting and picking-up women. However, she is not - yet. So that doesn’t leave her with many options of catching a one-night-stand considering there aren’t many “curious-women” or lesbians within our mid-level city vicinity. We don’t want to hook-up with friends either, for many reasons.

Therefore, a friend suggested we look to partner with a sex worker a few times to get her feet wet (no pun intended). To cure the immediate curiosity without needing to sink emotion and time into the flirt/catch-by-happenstance approach. The issue is that neither of us have any experience in this. I wouldn’t even know where to start. Are there some non-location-specific ways to find women workers? Waaaaay back (10 years), I knew of “backpages” but never used it and know all of the issues with it. Doubt it’s still around. But is there anything like that?

Sorry for the wordiness. I can tell she’s excited but getting discouraged because an opportunity hasn’t been easy to find, and she’s hot (of course, I’m biased).