My wife did sexwork before we got together and we have always discussed her doing it again but have never had any good leads essentially. Someone messaged her today looking to "smoke and hook up like we used to" for $1000. This was someone she vaguely recalls giving oral sex to but doesn't recall having penetrative sex with which concerns her regarding her lack of memory. He wants her for about 5 hours for smoking, oral, and penetrative sex. The options were in our apartment or at a hotel and we thought it would be better if it were at our place (correct me if you think a hotel would be better).

My main reason for making this post is to ask how we can make sure she is safe during this encounter. Is it better that we have him here where the environment is controlled? Is it better to not give out our address? What are some things to consider? Thanks in advance!