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I[21F] have had an OnlyFans for about 3 years now, and even though it's a short amount of time to be a sex worker, boy have I seen a lot of shit.
My newest annoyance? Someone's crazy teenage girlfriend.
I was friends with the boyfriend[20M] before I was friends with her[19F] because he was an ex-coworker at my day job and sold me weed sometimes. She was a nice girl and all three of us got along pretty well. We had similar interests and we all seemed to be on the same page about communication and maturity. Keyword, "seemed."
At the time I met her, she was not in a relationship with our male friend, and during our first and only hang out/smoke session we were talking about boys and such, and I mentioned how I find our guy friend attractive and I wouldn't probably fuck him if I was single(I'm in a 2yr committed relationship). She had no issue with this expression at the time, and why would she? She had said he was just her no strings fuck buddy, and I was allowed to appreciate an attractive human when I saw one.
Fast forward a month ago, I start advertising my OnlyFans to my friends on my Snapchat. She sees it and starts ignoring me. The "boyfriend" and I are talking on Instagram about business (he's a leather worker and I had friends who would've been interested), and I see her comment something lovey dovey under one of his posts, and I wonder if maybe they got together, so I message the girl and ask because I didn't want to advertise my content to him if they were in a relationship out of respect.
She leaves me on open and starts completely avoiding and ignoring me. I don't mind it much because I'm too busy working to care much anyway.
Then two weeks ago I'm trying to buy a few grams from the guy friend and he says "find another plug," so I ask what the hell was going on because this girl was acting WEIRD. He proceeds to freak out on me and say I "disrespected his woman" (oh please you guys JUST GRADUATED HIGHSCHOOL). I block him and her immediately and call my boss to let him know what happened because he was an ex-employee, and they were both banned from the property.
Apparently this girl thought that because I had an OnlyFans that I'm some kind of escort and because mentioned once that I thought this guy was attractive that I "wanted" him, despite me being in a relationship. Didn't even know they were together, and pretty sure the only reason they were together was because she saw me as a "threat" to her meatπ
But it's not over!
Not only does she get this guy to verbally harass me over text, but today, TWO WEEKS LATER, she comes into my day job to confront me herself. She starts saying all sorts of stuff, accusing me of wanting to fuck her man, and during the exchange two of her friends stole a bottle of seltzer. After I got her to leave I called my boss again, and now we're placing a restraining order against her using the camera footage and stolen item as evidence.
I am by no means surprised that these kids are acting this immature, I'm just annoyed that I have to deal with a crazy girl after I thought the situation was done! Have you guys ever had to deal with crazy wives or girlfriends? What did you do?
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