I have vaginismus that has been actively getting better of the past year, and so I decided I was at a point where I could get myself an actual dildo without wasting the money (not using it). So I got this dildo (dillio brand) that said it was slim and js about 1.4 inches in width and... it's still a bit too thick for me at the moment, sadly. I'm also almost a year on T (which is awesome), so I'm a relatively dry down there without... copious amounts of lube, so that's probably not helping either.

So! Does anyone know of a thinner (and maybe softer) dildo? Something that won't feel like I'm going to tear something that really shouldn't be?