hey all! i need some assistance finding the perfect vaginal dildo for me. i've been researching a lot on various websites this subreddit and have some options but i need a little help deciding. my current dildos just don't cut it. i had a dildo i liked a lot but i tossed it because it was pvc. i'm pretty tight and have never had piv sex, and my biggest dildo is 5" in girth which is too big for me to be comfortable. my smallest is 4" in girth which is a bit too small, so i'm ideally looking for something around 4.5" in girth. some websites don't list the girth which me sad, and most just say they're 1.5" width which doesn't tell me much.

some more details: i prefer pale, flesh-colored dildos but i'll take crazy colors too. i like them to have a slight upwards curve for g-spot stimulation. texture is nice but i don't want anything too textured that it's uncomfortable/jarring. i miiiight be able to do 4.75" girth, i'm not sure. i prefer dildos with balls but i don't mind ones without. in terms of firmness, i have a tantus acute which is too firm and too smooth, a small hound which is too soft/floppy (and there's no way i'll ever get that knot inside me lol rip), and a lyps which is the one that's too thick and a bit too veiny and firm. so i'd like a happy medium. dual-density sounds nice but they're usually more expensive.

type: realistic

material: body-safe silicone

suction required

insertable length: 5" – 7"

girth: 4.25" – 4.75"

width: 1.25" – 1.5"

firmness: medium; not too firm but not too soft (but more towards firm on the shore scale)

price limit: would prefer to keep it under $35, around $20 is ideal (with sales any discounts included)

shipping to usa

these are some of the dildos i've been looking at. if you own one, please give me any input you may have based on my requirements.

ns novelties colours dual density 5 inch

ns novelties coloursoft 5 inch (possibly too soft and too girthy?)

ns novelties colours pleasures 5 inch (too firm, too textured, too girthy?)

bms factory addiction: brad

bms factory addiction: mark

bms factory addiction: luke

blush silicone willy's 6 inch (only 4.5" insertable, but looks nice?)

blush silicone willy's 6.5 inch

blush avant d15 vision of love (too small / similar to my tantus?)

blush avant d7 ergo

blush neo elite 6 inch dual density

i know that's... a lot...... which is why i need help deciding on just one any other suggestions you may have. :( thank you!! 💜