So I'm (30m) trying to figure a good/first toy, or even bd/bd like toy

Unfortunately due to budget, and living space, I have never bought a toy before, nor used before, and always concered with nosy roommates finding them if I did buy one

Recently though, not only have I found someone who's introduced my to using toys, but is willing to buy for me some (price depending), and has already bought me a couple standard plugs (one jeweled another a fox tail) for personal use

With being given a budget of up to 99$ a toy, I really want to take the advantage and get something decent, and good for a first toy (x3 obv not xxl sized). Problem is figuring out what kind and type (and where since I know friends from local fur group has had issues with ordering from BD of late when comes to bd like toys).

Any advice?