I got my first dildo about a month ago and have had an issue with the toy and the lube. I had asked on this subreddit from this post. I went with /u/DangerousLilly suggestion of the Lovehoney 7 inch with the Sliquid Sassy Lube. Since using the toy and lube i've came across a couple problems. The first and most important thing is that the suction cup barely works. It will lightly stick to the wooden surface its on and then come off of it when i'm using the dildo. I tried taping it to the surface but it still comes off the same. The next problem is with the lube. Its just not really that slick. Don't get me wrong it works fine its just not what I really like. Riding the dildo seems like a bit more work because the lube doesn't really work with how i'm using the dildo. Its more difficult for the dildo to stick if getting out of me requires me to really try and get off of it. Sorry if my explanation doesn't make much sense I just can't really explain it.