Im new to anal sex toys and have only used a couple household objects that didn't really please me. I'd like to get an anal dildo with a flared base and a suction cup that's good for riding. Maybe 1-1.25 inch in diameter and maybe 6-8 inches long and I'd be willing to spend $25-$45 for a good starter one. Also I don't want one that will make any noises (If that's a thing) because there's some nosy people in the house I don't want knowing about this. I know lube is kind of a must but I don't know what kind to get, I'd be willing to spend $20 ish dollars (Idk what a good lube costs) I live in the US and can't go to a shop to get anything.