Today was a bit of a milestone for me. I went to Spencer’s with a friend who was hunting for something specific, and on a spontaneous whim, I decided to pick up a toy too. Honestly, I was so clueless about what I wanted, and the whole selection process was a little nerve-wracking. In the end, I chose a vibrator.

Wow, just wooowww. I didn’t expect it to feel so amazing so quickly. It's crazy how something I was hesitant about has completely changed my perspective.

Growing up with even the idea of using my hands feel wrong, let alone anything else. Talking about this with a friend opened my eyes to how messed up my understanding of sex really was. I used to think it was something only done when you were bored or after being with someone for a long time. But today, I realized there's so much more to it, and it’s been a game-changer for me.