Hi all, looking for some advice.

I posted earlier this year looking for a dildo for my wife, ended up choosing a Tantus Flurry. She really enjoys it, likes the dual density feel of it and finds it good for both toying and thrusting. She’s also come round to the idea of getting something realistic looking (which I’m thrilled about!) but would like it to be thicker than the flurry (advertised as 1.5” diameter so I guess about 4.75” girth). She also takes its length (7in insertsble)quite readily.

Requesting advice - when upsizing, do the good people here suggest going up in girth or length at the same time? Or just go for girthier for now and look at length another time? And what kind of increment would people go up in for girth? Think I’m about 5.25” circumference. She’s left it up to me - and given I don’t have a vagina I’m not sure how much “filling” an additional half inch/inch would be?

And following on from that - any recommendations to consider based on this? Needs to be available in UK.

Thanks!