Back in my dating days, I would sign up with bumble as I liked the idea that the women had to intimate the conversation.

Sometimes the conversations would die, but for the most part, the conversations would go well. I would go on lots of dates to just see how it goes. Lots of coffee dates, walks and dinners that would be good. I can honestly say, even being catfishes, the dates weren't bad or horrible.

Every once in awhile, the conversations would turn sexual and entertaining in that sense. We would chat experiences and what we wanted from each other. On those dates, it was always exciting as I love seeing a women in her underwear and naked. A few girls would be down to just meet up and get down before out actual dates. Some dates were just that, some dates start in the coffee place we could both feel the desire for each other. They would blush and ask if I was ready.

If I got catfished, I would just enjoy the dinner/coffee, but I always enjoyed meeting up just for sex. It was the time when we would both feel safe to just tell each other what we wanted in that moment.