Hello everyone, I (f38) am in a 20 year relationship with hubby (m38). After 4 kids and many years of broken communication my libido has almost disappeared. Hubby and I have worked through a lot and communication is still a work in progress. Communication about sex is still very difficult for me. I grew up in Catholic education where being sexual or even talking about it was shamed and deemed dirty. I am also working through accepting it is completely natural and not shameful at all. We all deserve to feel pleasure and desired. I am really struggling with finding or reclaiming my libido. What have you done or suggest to reclaim your libido and desire to have sex again?