Hey all,

Something I've always been unable to understand is how people talk about sex with friends. Not fwb or partners, but plantonic relationships. To me it's always seemed weird, wrong, unnatural, and I really have no idea how to do it

I know my partner has expressed that in her friendships she likes that aspect of being able to talk about sex. But I just truly don't understand how or what to do though. With my current friendships we don't talk about it so you can't incorporate it there. And it's just so uncomfortable to even think about bringing it up.

I realize that I personally have a lot of hangups and warped views of myself, and my own sexuality that is getting in the way of this. So maybe it's something that isn't even possible until I get my own feelings worked out.

But I'm interested to hear from people that do have this as a part of your friendships.

How do you do it? I really don't understand but am sick of hating how I feel, and want to learn what it looks like for others.