Hi, I'm looking for advice on how I (30M) can give my girlfriend (28F) a clitoral orgasm. I haven't had issues with past partners, but she's admitted she requires LOTS of pressure on her clit when she masturbates. As a result, external fingering and oral don't do much for her.

This thread does a good job of describing her usual habits. I've tried the advice found there (vibrating wands, grinding hard in missionary, etc.) but thus far the only way we've found for her to cum during sex is when she grinds on top. Even then, it isn't very reliable since it depends on her stamina and her ability to find and maintain a very specific angle.

I'd love to be able to do this for her more consistently and without her having to exhaust herself every time! Thanks in advance.