Hi everyone! I'm concern abt me and my bf. We've been together for almost 2 yrs and still counting but after I gave birth to my daughter and started my birth control. I no longer find my bf attractive and I hate him for some unknown reason but I want him to be with me but I just hate him.

For context, I started hating him when he started to go out and come home late. I suspected he's cheating on me (he have a cheating history in the beginning of our relationship, we got over it because our daughter came so we put our past behind and we focus on our daughter) but he said " I doesn't see the point of cheating on you. Yes, the satisfaction was there. The satisfaction of sleeping with somebody else but the point is no where to be found. There's no point of sleepin with someone when I have a girl waiting for me in my house" and my MIL just said "His father was like that when we were at your age but he's far worst that his father. His father never came home late but he never showed his face for 2 months. I guess it's a "PHASE" to men when they had a family. So you should give him a moment and understand him" but no, I'm tired of this. How do I keep myself from understanding a grown ahh adult to " live his life while he's young" while I have to take care of his child and not able to take care of myself? I'm done and I'm tired of that. It's been whole 10 months and he's still in that "phase"!?

Yes, I still do intercourse with him but not like we do in the beginning of our relationship where there's genuine feelings and now I'm just disgusted by him. He tries to be lovey dovey with me but my reaction was visible to my face that I'm disgusted. I confroted him once but he just said "I didn't do anything wrong" but for me, I feel like he only vome home to have sx with me. Last time we had sx it was weeks ago. Not like in the beginning of our relationship we had sx for almost everyday, every hour but now, we had sx when I feel like it. I just say no when he wants to.

Anyone? What should I do? It keeps getting worst to the point I no longer want him to be in the bed or chair with me