I recently found out that one of my roommates friend is into me and wants a threesome with me and her friend, and they’ve already started making slight advancements and hinting at the idea of it. While I would love to experience this and have a bit of fun during my college years, I can’t shake the fear of them judging me for being a virgin and not “performing well enough” or not knowing what I’m doing. What have you guys done to help your confidence? Or tips on how to be a bit better in bed for your first time? Not to mention- is having a threesome be my first time a terrible idea? I’m not sure how to go about that.

I just feel like there’s a lot of pressure on anyone still a virgin after high school since so many people have experience already and don’t want to deal with someone unexperienced.