Hey! Me and my girlfriend have been talking about exploring our boundaries around sex & relationships.

We love the ideas around exploring sex, and currently reside in monogamish territory - enjoying fantasising about other people together.

We hit a wall of fear when thinking about actually opening up our relationship- fear of how it would change our relationship, all the emotional triggers potentially involved and the loss of stability in our current set up.

I would love to know how people in this grey zone of liking the idea of exploring, explored and figured out their boundaries in a safe way? How did you approach it? What did you do to figure it out?

Thank you for the help.