I recently started dating someone new and we had sex for the first time the other night. When I tell you it was HOT as hell… steamy is the word that comes to mind. He is amazing at what he does lmao.

Anyway, what really strikes me and is the inspiration for this post is that something happened that I’ve never experienced before - we came at the same time!!!!! It was unreal, ESPECIALLY because a) we had literally never had sex together before and b) it was through vaginal penetration (not an orgasm from clitoral stimulation specifically). In going back through my memory banks, I think there were a few things that contributed to this:

• Foreplay: He gave me head EXTENSIVELY before penetration. Wet, sloppy, juicy head where he got all up in my pussy and asshole for at least 45 minutes. He also fingered me before and during cunnilingus, using different techniques - one finger, multiple, with his thumb, fast, slow, etc
• Clear (and sexy) communication: We were very clear throughout the entire experience about our likes, dislikes and boundaries. Plus his dirty talk was elite and he appreciated mine as well.
• Comfort: He made every effort to ensure my comfort. Asking me about the lighting, the room temperature, if I needed a beverage lol etc.
• Finishing in the CAT position: The coital alignment technique (CAT) truly does work and I think doing it as we were both ramping up to orgasm made all the difference.

Ugh, writing this post just makes me want to go fuck him all over again!