Hi. I’m a M32. My wife is F28. We have only been married for a couple of years, but the sex has always been amazing. I’m still extremely attracted to her and love her wholeheartedly. I just always have the desire to fuck other women. I haven’t acted on it, and I don’t intend to. It’s literally just an impulsive desire. I don’t want to form bonds or connections with these people.

My wife is bi-sexual. We both have had threesomes in past relationships, but never together. I’ve done an open relationship before, but it got messy.

I don’t want* to be secretive or cheat. So I don’t act out.

I’ve tried therapy. And there didn’t seem to be anything “wrong”

My wife used to always joke around that she was going to get a girlfriend. And I always encouraged her.

I would be so happy if we had the chance to enjoy other women together like that.

I don’t really know what I’m asking for. I’m just looking for some insight on where I should look to for guidance at finding out what I am or who I am