So I’m a 23F who’s been exploring the kinky lifestyle for a while. I’m in a long distance relationship with 24M and 22F (we’re a throuple). With my boyfriend I’ve developed a Dom/sub dynamic that i really enjoy, and since we both have a higher sex drive than our girlfriend, we usually leave the crazier or kinkier stuff we do him and I (with her knowledge, ofc). We’re all from a rather conservative country, where we lived together until recently that we moved to different places that are more liberal. In my hometown I never really experienced with the bi or kinky side of me outside of my relationship because I never had the opportunity, but where I live now it’s possible to go to events/parties or meet like minded people. My boyfriend has encouraged me to be more open about my sexuality with the new friendships I’m building, so as to surround myself with people I can openly talk about my lifestyle without judgement, but I still feel like I have an internal judgment about myself from the way I was raised, that doesn’t really let me to speak about this things naturally or casually, even though I very much would like to. Does anyone have any tips for this?

I would really love to have more friends who I can share this part of my life with, but I’ll never get there if I can’t speak openly about it.