I am very new and have stumbled on this page. I am glad I did. I need help or someone to talk to. This weekend were a year in on my husband's charge(ASAC) of 4 years. It's also our 10 year. As well as marks 2 years of him not living In The home... In this time I thought we would be closer but I bring up the past(not the charge) and I feel like I remind him of his mistake. I don't want to give up. When this case began I decided to choose him no matter what and i have made it to where it's hard for him to choose me. He is going threw allot mentally and I am struggling to understand what he doesn't say... I am also going threw allot as well and when I try to address it, it just causes more problems... I guess I'm asking for now. How do I help us? How do I help him? How do I understand...

I'm sorry if this doesn't make sense. It doesn't to me really. I just. I don't know... thank you for reading and the post on this page give me hope. Not sure what exactly for but it does...