We have a small list that we have been talking about for quite a while that we would like to experiment with. For starters, we have played with other people (threesomes with guys, threesomes with females, played with other couples…), but it might happen once every three or four months. It’s not a big part of our lives or some thing that we “need“ to spice things up. Our sex life is plenty spicy already!

We both fantasize about watching the other one “in action“. But more than that, I love watching her leave her comfort zone and be flirty with other people. It doesn’t come naturally to her but knowing that it turns me on inspires her to try her best. As soon as we know that the other one is getting excited or turned on, some thing that might not even have really interested us before can often become very exciting and enticing. So this is what we’ve come up with:

We have a literally printed up to “Tickets“ that we each have any time cash in at any point. During the day at this resort, everyone hangs out by the pool naked. There is some sexual activity, but that is usually reserved for the evening time around the hot tub. Not everyone there are swingers, and people are very respectful and we have not witnessed anyone be “pushy“, making others feel uncomfortable. At any time she wishes, my partner can hand me her ticket that reads:

“Stop! You have been handed a surprise oral ticket. Your partner will point him/her out, and you have one minute to walk over and do as we agreed”

Here’s what we agreed - if she hands me a ticket and points to a female, I have to walk over to the couple and I am only allowed to say this, “ hi there! My name is____. Would it be OK with both of you if I could spend the next few minutes giving you oral sex while my partner watches from over there? If you are not interested or that is not your thing, please forgive my intrusion. If you would allow me, I would like to give you my best efforts and put on a sexy show for my partner…

We ALWAYS have “veto rights“. If maybe we have encountered that person earlier in the day and didn’t like their personality or some other reason. We aren’t really hung up on “looks“ although we will both definitely try to find someone attractive. More specifically, someone we think our partner might find attractive!

Neither of us have ever walked up to a total stranger and asked them if we could give them oral sex. Our fantasies generally involve some degree of leaving our comfort zones. That is something I absolutely love about our relationship. We give each other the confidence to partake in activities that we would never be able to do without the other inspiring us….

So men, if you found yourself in the situation and a gentleman that you were never going to see you again asked to do that to your girlfriend/wife, never to see the guy again, would you shut it down right there? Would you ask her if she were interested and you go with her decision? Anything else?

Ladies? It’s an attractive, anonymous lady wanted to give your boyfriend/husband the best blow job she could, only to then disappear from your lives forever, what would your reaction be?

I only asked that your responses not cast judgment on the responses of others. We all view the world differently and that doesn’t make us right and everyone else wrong, just different. Clearly you can respond however you want, I am just making a hopeful request…

Oh, one of the best parts of this fantasy is wondering, always looking around, trying to figure out when she’s going to play her card. No matter how embarrassed I am or how much anxiety I feel, my natural instinct to not want to let her down will win out. That assumes of course that the individual is suitable, but unless there is a specific reason to be tail, I believe we will both be able to go through with it