Looking for a little advice here. Wife has two fantasies. One being a light dominant experience. I have tied her up in the past and have some bed ties that go under the mattress to hold her arms and legs down. She likes being tied up and not knowing what’s going on. I love being dominant but I think I get in my own head a little about it. Looking for advice on how to go to the next stop? She told me she likes the thought of being spanked, hair pulled and lightly choked. The part I struggle with is the spanking. How hard? How long? Do you spank and go to something else and then back to spanking? I want to take this to the next level for her and I enjoy it too but I want to also make sure it’s sexy and fun and not awkward haha.

Her second one she told me about is being painted with body paint. She couldn’t explain why she thought it was sexy but she said that it popped in her head that she would like to be naked and having me paint her body. This one is pretty self explanatory on what to do so I guess I was just more sharing this one.