My ideal partner is someone who is uninhibited in anything sexual, who will follow me into any kink I conjure up in my constantly kinky head. (Within reason of course, all the limits and boundaries etc. in place).

Someone who is curious, who loves exploring everything sexually. Taboo stuff does not bother her (again, within reason and moral limits). Open minded to the extent that, sex to her is beautiful when made part of everything in every day life - from food play to somno to a wide range of paraphilia. Constantly experimenting and trying new things to add to our repository of kinks, discarding what does not work and practising to perfection, what works.

Someone who is curious about people's bodies - all people, any gender any race any age (legal), just people. But only in the context of sex, no emotional or romantic attachment.

I fantasize such a woman, who is loyal and devoted to me as I am to her. And through this loyalty and devotion, she dedicates her life to exploring sex with me.

We get on dating apps and pick play partners/ dates to explore together. She picks the girls and I pick the guys. When we go on holiday, we do the same. We pick couples to swing with, older than us, younger than us or a combination. She loves doing what I ask her to do, loves taking directions and instructions, always in an obeying mode, even when we are playing with other people, she is only thinking of doing it for me, that is how she enjoys any of it. She never does anything solo with anyone unless I explicitly ask her to. And she follows instructions without exceptions.

We are not jealous because our loyalty and devotion to each other, kills all jealously. There is nothing we want more than to be with each other, because we are just right for each other. We love everything non-sexual between us too. Our life is 50% sex and 50% everything else. The everything else includes things we are passionate about either together or separately. I love the things she is into and she loves the things I am into. We support each other like pilot and co-pilot (commercial). Like pilot and navigator (search and rescue).

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TLTR - Too Lazy To Read?

Taboo sex between us would include.....

Incest - sex with siblings - 2 brothers or 2 sisters or bro/ sis duo, a parent/ child duo (legal), or some sort of relation between the two (cousins, aunt-niece/ nephew, uncle-nephew/ niece, grandpa-grandma/ grandchild (legal), etc). They don't have to do anything sexual with each other if they do not want to, just with me and my woman only. So they are clean of incest. It is only for me and my woman to enjoy the incest of other people. There must be some term for this sort of incest? But if they are Ok with their own incest, then by all means sex shall go all around.

Religion - my fantasy woman and I are non-religious so we have no trouble desecrating religion sexually. But wait, it cannot be desecration because her and I believe that - God = Love. Sex = Love making. So by that, Sex = God making. Sex is how life is created. And God is in all life. So sex creates God. Also, God exists without man's religion. So her and I are loving God without religion in the picture. Her and I would engage in sex around things of religious significance - if she is ex-Christian then we would fuck in some abandoned church at the alter, if she is ex-Muslim then we would fuck on the prayer mat during the call for prayer 5 times a day, if Jewish then, I will let her tell me how to desecrate Judaism, because I have no idea what their rituals are. If she is ex-Hindu then too, she will have to give me ideas to defile Hinduism with her. If she is ex-Orthodox or ex-Lutheran or ex-whatever, she will tell me how to desecrate those. If she is ex-anything that has the concept of 'praying to/ worshiping' a deity, then we shall desecrate it.

Exhibitionism/ Voyeurism - this too will be a prominent kink in our sex life. We will try all kinds of outdoor sexual activities ethically. Nude beaches, parks, nature trails, hiking and trekking, lakes and ponds, picnics and barbecues. no surrounding or activity would be off limits - ethically. We will engage in watching people have sex, with their consent, we will have sex online on video calls with other people/ couples, we will record ourselves having sex and do our own amateur home-made erotic content and share with online communities - anonymously.

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If I exist, this fantasy woman does too somewhere. Sending her all my love.....and lust.