For context, I’m a straight 31m, married, and have only had monogamous sex.

I don’t remember when this fantasy started but I can remember fantasizing about it as a freshman in high school so it’s been with me for quite awhile and hasn’t changed very much over the years:

It’s a normal house party/pool party, not like a college rager or anything, with everyone hanging out and having a good time. Some people are naked, maybe some skinny dipping, but nothing feels weird or awkward and the vibe of the party stays the same as the night goes on. People are free to do as they want, whether it be have sex or just sitting on the patio sipping some wine.

The idea has always felt so freeing for me, like an adrenaline shot of sexual energy mixed with that feeling of desire. Honestly, if I was ever in that situation ( and my wife was on board ), i would probably just walk around naked and enjoy the environment. There’s something about being seen and seeing others that really turns me on 😅