I met this guy who is twice my age, hes hot, well dressed, good hygiene and slick hair. I had a few dates with him, he took me out on an awesome event last weekend and then we went to a hotel for the night. I really like the guy but 1 thing. He has a really big D which gave me a tear a few days ago. Im still kinda sore and cant wipe after going pee. And im afraid it will happen again. I really like him but dont really like how he is that big, and it doesnt help when i like rough hard sex. Is there ways to avoid more damage if i meet him again? Or should i just find someone else? How do i weigh this out? Oh btw. He said he is married too but his wife is ok with him dating.