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I need to know there’s hope. I gave my spouse who I’ve suspected of addiction long before he has- one year. I’ll stay for a year, therapy and a full change needs to happen or I will walk away with our kids. I’m unexpectedly pregnant- and I can only think it’s the result of this addiction. We had what I thought was a great marriage. Sex 1-2 times a week, if I offered more I’d be turned down. He was chatting online almost daily with women, all day long. Sexting, receiving photos and videos. Paying for this on OF, Snapchat, etc. I’m hurt. I can’t be like what he was asking for in these thousands of messages I read through. I gave up my career and my life for him and I’m repaid like this.
The more you police him the more he will resent you and hide it from you. Speaking from experience. Of course, everyone is different, but one thing remains true for everyone, they will not change unless THEY WANT TO.
The more you police him the more he will resent you and hide it from you. Speaking from experience. Of course, everyone is different, but one thing remains true for everyone, they will not change unless THEY WANT TO.
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