Sorry if this has been asked recently. I am not an active member of this sub but I did search some key words and there were so many posts within a small 24 hour period 😭

I wanted to know from yalls perspective if 20% is still considered a "good" tip? It's always been my understanding that 15% was the standard and 20% was meant for exceptional service, those who went out of their way to provide a great dining experience. (For example learning your regulars orders or bringing out condiments/drink refreshments/extra stuff before being asked)

But I'm also aware that servers are definitely not paid fairly by their employers if they are relying on tips to live.

I've been to some restaurants where leaving 22 - 28% is a tip option. Are these the new standards for great service? Am I an assh*le if I just leave a 15% tip as a norm?