We are separated but still living together. We are soon to be moving to our own places and will split the kids 50/50 I'm fine with the separation and that she cheated and lied. But I just don't know how I should feel when she gets all pretty to go see her affair partner/bf.? Should u not let ut bother me. I'll admit it does bother me. I wish she would wait till after we move. I'm ready for a new relationship but haven't found anyone.

I have mixed feelings when she goes to see her new guy. But how should I look at it? I know I should just not be bothered by it right. I hate that it bothers me and she knows it bothers me. What do you guys think or suggest?