So we did it!! 😁 😊

We’re thrilled to join the MFM club and to report an awesome first time, for both of us, …but especially her!!

It was an amazing combination of slow touch and kissing (it was surprisingly hot watching her make out with him, but I also loved our passionate kissing while she was being pleasured by another guy). I never would have guessed I’d ever report such findings, but now I’m hooked.

It was kind of a long ride to get here; I mean, T-O-T-A-L-L-Y worth it , do not get me wrong, but it did take some time!! It is funny now though, looking back it seems that, in the very end, it was actually surprisingly easy and simple to set up. We were clearly very fortunate to find a guy in the perfectly non-perfect normal age/shape/type/sex style for her (of course US, by extension..). Hell, he even had a good and comparable personality. Perfect for this in considering he was/is a great guy and easy to get along with, he’s moderately interesting (just enough), and in no way dominant or threatening. He was nice, fun, cool (is that an okay term to describe? Or does it just announce to the world that high school for me was in the early mid 90’s?), and, most importantly, she found him attractive.

Yep, we had our first MFM a couple of weeks ago. For context, we are new, but not new-new to introducing partners. Prior to this, we’ve had one of each of the following, in order of sequence: FFM, nude resort parallel play (some cross touching of breasts only), full couple swap MFMF, and now MFM! I am reluctant to try to rank the experiences, because I smiled for days and days after the FFM 😁 😊, but this was incredible. And there are still more things we’d love to try, and others to do more of. We are now in the sweet spot of having the right guy at just the right time and place and level of shared experience. I guess it is New Relationship Energy, but it is entirely without strings or any hopes or expectations beyond having great and naughty sex. To continue my tangent, we are in the Ven disgram overlap of attraction, lust, comfort, and thirst for adventure. On the spectrum of familiarity, we at just-enough-for-threeway- mutual-comfort and yet not at all near the entry to the range of being-so-familiarwith-that-novelty-and curiousity-are-waning. Novelty intact, this is wear both parties (in this case all three in a certain configuration) all want to tear the clothes off of eachother an both guys want to show a lady the absolute time of her life.

Let me share how it came to be and how it all kind of transpired:

We had been discussing for a while, but she was always somewhat hesitant or self restrained. She was definitely curious to try it, and I was increasingly encouraging. The idea of actively looking came up a few times, but nothing ever seemed to move along. Finally I began looking for someone I thought she would be comfortable with and sexually aroused by. I responded to a couple of the many single guys who had messaged that I could never seem to convince her to actively consider looking at. I responded to the guys that wrote something with some sort of thought and effort put in, and definitely not the over aggressive ones. I let them know that, before she would consider moving on, she would expect them to unmask and show a face pic, also preferably or additionally a whole body clothed shot. She/we are not super shallow, but she really needs to see to judge for herself if there is attraction. Two guys responded as asked, a couple of days apart. I had already told her I was doing this, and she seemed somewhat coyly pleased by it, or st least not resistant at all. The first guy looked old and rough and objectively ugly, I hate to say. I had already basically dismissed him, but she agreed to look when I mentioned in bed one night. She agreed she could not ever see herself inclined to have sex with him. Or was too bad, because he had said the right things. She and I talked very candidly that night though. She admitted she was getting excited by the idea although she still was shocked and kind of taken aback that I wanted this so much. I continued the same refrain but more carefully explained as to how this fantasy had come on years ago out of seeming nowhere to then just grow to a raging boner of interest! I told her there was another promising candidate, one that I first reached out to. He had just that night replied to included requested photos . I though he looked okay, nothing super but also nothing offensive about him. I could see that she would find him more than decent looking. Sure enough, she agreed he was good looking. She agreed she be inclined to meet if we (I) could arrange.

After some more online chatting and attraction verification: message and photos exchanges, we set up a casual public meeting. That evening went well, and we then planned a house meeting/play session for two nights later. I know what she likes, and that she enjoys a slowish build up and lots of play. From the time he arrived until he left was about 3.5 hours, of which we were naked and playing over 2.5hrs! She had numerous orgasms and he and I each had ours too. The whole thing was amazing!

When he arrived, he fixed a drink and sat on the couch in the living room. It was a little weird, we weren’t sure how to start exactly or invite the move to the bedroom (she and I had talked about this before he got there, but really had no plan). We didn’t want it to feel forced or mechanical like an appointment- that was something we realized (especially she) after a previous couple swap (also our first) a couple of months ago. She/we appreciate the flirting and naughty touch and general build up of energy and lust.

Anyway, after some chat of increasingly naughty variety on the couch, I got up to take my glass to the kitchen and returned to stand behind the couch. I massaged my lady’s neck as he sidled in to casually rub her thigh. I could tell she was becoming very excited but also feeling awkward or holding herself back. I leaned over and kissed her neck and whispered in her ear how fucking hot she is and that everything is okay. As I stood back up, I told them both that I is really like for her and I to give her a good four hands massage. She smiled coyly and murmured her pleasure with the idea. We had already established that our guest, a gentleman, is also a pleaser. He smiled a big grin and wholeheartedly agreed. At that I suggested we should move to the king bed and make ourselves more comfortable.. but first, I’d love to see them kiss.

I realize that there can be big differences between fantasy and reality, so I was unsure going in exactly how I would react. I mean, I had seen her with the other guy in our swap, but he was much smaller than my average and she was only moderately into him. This current scenario was on a different level. But, seeing them make up as I reached over and felt her up turned out to be super hot. I took her hand to lead to the bedroom, and she took his hand.

In the bedroom I again encouraged them to continue kissing standing next to the bed. This time was more natural and passionate as the awkwardness was waning. I assisted in taking her shirt and bra off. She tugged at his shirt, and he immediately took the cue to promptly remove it, I took my own off. We then gently laid her on the bed and slid her pants off and rolled her over. We both began rubbing and massaging her back and down to her butt. He and I took turns removing our jeans and continued massaging in our boxers. I gently moved her legs apart just enough to incorporate some occasional inner thigh rubs into the routine. I my was so hot seeing this other nearly naked man caressing my wife with me! Seeing him grab her bare ass and hearing/sensing her enjoyment was intoxicating. I leaned in to kiss her neck again as he took over the inner thigh hand position. Her increased breathing rate and depth made clear her growing arousal. I assisted her roll over onto her back exposing her completely and allowing her to view the proceedings. We each directed our attention to a boob. Her breasts are truly otherworldly- enormous and perfectly shaped with gorgeous nipples. She lay there in ecstasy her hands reaching to touch two cocks. I again told them both, out of my sheer excitement and a desire to completely reassure/encourage, that she looked so hot and how great this was. I went down on her a bit as he continued to play with her breasts and passionately kiss (when we first talked about getting into LS activities, we both -foolishly- thought we didn’t want kissing to be a part of it. Maybe that works for some, but for us kissing is an essential part of the experience. If I’m going to be able to handle seeing this man fuck her, I should be okay with seeing them kiss afterall!). Her hands continued to reach eagerly for our cocks. Recognizing the cue, we each pulled our shorts off and tossed aside. Come up here she urged.

We each moved up to sit against the headboard on either side of her, cocks vertical. He scooched herself up and bit to a semi sitting position as well. She rubbed our balls and stroked us, one in each hand. In our lead up conversations, we had both acknowledged this position being of interest. And, it was as hot as imagined! Surprisingly from where my opinions had been just a couple of years ago, I was really enjoying seeing the woman I love playing with another penis (and my own of course). When we had pre-spoke about this, she had commented that it would be an incredible feeling of power it would be for her and reassurance of sexiness; I could see that in her eyes as we shared a loving gaze. My eyes then shifted back to watch her stroking. He had a nice cock, I’d say. It was very similar to my own, but I’d say a bit larger, a touch thicker I thought, and maybe 1/4-1/2” longer. Then again, I haven’t seen my own cock from the same angle 🤷‍♂️. This didn’t bother me at all, again another pleasant realization. I was happy she was enjoying it and hungry to touch it, while also showing me the same enthusiasm. I knew this couldn’t continue for too long. It was a great position to experience, but I wanted to get back to our attention being one her (other than that we guys were each using a hand to either tease her lips and clit or cup a breast). I also wanted to slow myself down to ensure the long slow play session. So, I mentioned that I was going to step out for a moment to get us all waters. Of course my alterior motive was to give them a few moments of privacy to escalate their play. As I stood up, they moved back into laying positions face to face passionately making out. I saw her lift her upper knee and rest it on him wrapping her leg around as their hands ran all over one another. I couldn’t help but push in the doorway and enjoy that show a moment, again commenting on how sexy she is.

I took my time filling three waters and catching my breath enjoying the glow of the situation. When I walked back down the hall and got to the door, I witnessed another super hot scene! He was laying on his back and she was straddling his face! I always love this position, but she is often reluctant these days. But I wasn’t upset in anyway, it just told me she was fully into the experience in the moment. And she sure was! The sluttiness and hearing her moans as I could also see his cock twitching was very hot!

I set the waters down, one on the near bedside table and I slowly walked around to set the other two on the opposite side. She looked over at me with this look of ultimate pleasure in her eyes. I gave her an air kiss and she swooned. I then climbed back up on the bed and fondled her while we kissed as she was being eaten. She reached to feel my cock again, but after a few moments I held her wrist and moved her hand off of me and back towards his. She gracefully dismounted and repositioned to focus on him. She stroked and then leaned in to suck him. Holy fuck! This was hot!

As she was on all fours, I moved in behind her and moved in to tease her lips and clit with my cock. Me moaned in pleasure and visibly transferred her good sensations onto his cock. As I penetrated her, she gasped. I loved the view; it wasn’t exactly the classic “spitroast” position, but I did get to watch her playing and enjoying a cock while I fucked her from behind. She orgasmed and I could have too, but I slowed and stopped, still rubbing her back. I then used my fingers to play with her as I gently nudged her shoulder to have her roll over off of him. He sprung up and moved in to go down on her. While I have always been very proud of my own oral skills and have received many accolades (and unofficial first place prizes) through the years, his skills seemed to at least match if not top my own. He latched in there and she was again in absolute ecstasy. I suckled a breast and kissed her and played with her hair for a bit. Then I found an opening for my fingers below his chin to play with her asshole. I borrowed some lubricant oozing down and managed to insert a finger in her ass. She orgasmed again a short time later.

We took another little intermission to drink some water, all the while snuggling and touching against her. I whispered in her ear once again how much I love her and how incredibly hot she is. We kissed as he sucked a breast. She then moved down to suck my cock with a great sensuality and enthusiasm. He moved behind her and penetrated! There it was, another man’s cock in my wife. It was all good and i knew I could cum like this.. but I wasn’t ready yet. I ran my fingers through her hair and enjoyed her murmurs of pleasure. He may have also wanted to delay his own climax as he withdrew continued with his fingers before going back down to eat her out from behind. As she pulled her head back in a momentary pleasure expression, I took the opportunity to move back up onto my knees and rub her back/neck/ass. With a gentle tug on her shoulder, she rolled back onto her back. Our third then moved in to penetrate her again from missionary. He rolled a new condom on (our rule for thirds) and I watched as he twirled his cock head around her opening before sliding in. Although he had already penetrated her from behind, this was the first clear view I had of the entry. And it was amazing. I sat back and watched for a few minutes while still touching her lightly here and there. I watched as their rhythm increased and the grinding deepened. The look in her eyes, a look I know and remember, was unfuckingreal. This whole thing was sooo hot. I again sat back to watch for a few minutes. He soon orgasmed, I’m not certain if she did just then, but if not she was very very close. As he rolled off, she popped up onto her hands and knees again and I took her from behind. We had super passionate sex while seeing him lying there contented watching us closely with his no-longer fully-erect-but-still-swelled cock hanging out. I appreciated his comfort with open nudity, even post ejaculation. Wanting to help us along, assumedly, he then reached under to tease her clit with his fingers while I pumped in and out. As soon as I heard and felt her orgasm is convulsions, I quickly let go and erupted into a massive explosion filling her up.

We rolled over and all three layed naked on the bed enjoying the moment. Again, I internally marvelled at how we three were all so comfortable in complete nakedness. It’s like there were no feeling of comparisons, inadequacy, or shame. And I didn’t feel threatened in the least. While I obviously knew she vastly enjoyed herself and his attention we knew that part was only for the experience of it. Our love and mutual commitment is solid, somehow even stronger now.

We are both so glad to have had this experience. And the timing was great too. She has now left for a summer work position that will keep her keep her away for awhile. But we still talk about these memories regularly in our calls, and we are planning some more when she comes back in a few weeks. We will likely see this third again. He fit our style and respect requirements perfectly, and she is attracted to him. While I consider myself straight, I can say that I felt very comfortable with this man as well.

She and I have talked about possibly trying DP next time! This, and I also really want to give her a good fucklick experience too (the other guy and I will need to discuss. I had casually mentioned it during or previous encounter, but it never happened as I think probably takes prior understanding - I am okay with either end of this provided the focus and attention is all on her, incidental contact is of no concern. I am not turned on by man on man pleasuring or being pleasured directly, but I do see an extra penis as a good sex toy for her, much better than when we okay with dildos/vibrators).

In addition to a potential MFM repeat, this experience has also further fuelled our desire for other LS play. We want to find another couple who enjoy a similar play style to this, and hopefully one with four way mutual attraction.

All in all, to summarize, I say go for it my man! If she is into it, you feel and have mentally entertained the fantasy, and you’re both clear on desires and limits, then you are set for an amazing experience. It may be tricky to find the right guy, of course. While we had the idea on the table for months, nothing progressed until I personally took a more active role in reaching out and interacting with the interested parties. I was pretty sure when I found the one she would like, and I showed her his profile and photos. She agreed he was attractive right away, and then after a few chats she liked the way he conducted himself and we were excited to set up that first meeting. The rest is history.

As said, I am just a couple of years removed from being almost repulsed by this idea. This is clearly a product of upbringing. My lady and I did have the classic fantasy MFF threesome a couple of years ago. It was great and I smiled for days after. At that time we openly and honestly discussed fantasies. It turns out she had a bucket list written when she was much younger that had threesome MFF AND MFM on it. This was when I first started to truly entertain the possibility. Over the ensuing two years, and stoked by one parellel play nude resort experience as well as the recent swap, this MFM fantasy just grew and grew for me. Once she was assured of my comfort with it and boundaries understood, it was easy to get her interested. She still had the programming in her to be a “good girl”, but occasionally she seemed to relax that in our own fantasy play sessions (often aided by porn to discuss and imagine the possibilities). Now that we’ve done it, we both know we can and that it has only strengthened our bond to one another. It’s a big secret we share while on the surface to family and (vanilla) friends and society in general, we are non-deviants 😆. The shared secret further forges an already strong connection.

Be smart, but definitely go for it! Enjoy!

PS. Maybe we can take a second for some photos next time