I want to preface this post with, I understand it’s not true SR but I think some people here will benefit from this story. Also I posted this in NoFap as well for the same reason.

I wanted to share my story. It began about 1.5 years ago. Now let’s start with I am no angel, and I’ve given in to temptation probably 10-20 times in that time frame but considering I was fapping 1-2 times a day before that, I consider it a victory. Over the 1.5 years I have gotten better by the month. Here is how I did it:

It started with watching. A post form a health guru named Dave Asprey. He said men should only ejaculate once a week. He said men can have sex as much as they want but they just need to stop before ejaculating. Women can orgasm as much as they like. He said you will notice more energy, more testosterone, and better mood overall so my wife and I started it.

When we started it I was in a dark place and I finally confessed to her I’ve been fapping almost every day for the last 20 years and been watching a lot of porn. She was shocked but saw that it was hurting me so we both agreed no more jerking and no more porn.

Almost immediately my relationship with my wife got better. We were more intimate and connected. Because of this, she was in the mood way more so we ended up having sex like 3-7 times a week. This was hard for me but it was fun. I would only ejaculate on Saturdays so we knew any other day I wouldn’t be ejaculating. I was getting better and better at sex without finishing.

What I noticed is that after sex where I didn’t ejaculate, we would cuddle and my body would calm down. We had an amazing connection and once it was done I felt fully satisfied, like I had a full orgasm but I didn’t.

Like I said, I relapsed a few times but I’m human and these things happen. I just got back on the train and kept going.

During November last year I participated in NNN for the first time ever. I logged my sex and I made my wife orgasm 24 times that months and I didn’t orgasm once. I felt great.

I wanted to share this story with you guys because there is a life past fapping and it truly is great. I feel better than I have ever felt, I work out more, I sleep better, and I have more energy. You can have a full sex life and really enjoy it. Stay strong my friends and know that if you mess up, it’s ok, just get back on the train.