I hope this is ok to post here. 🤷‍♂️

My wife (40) and I (40) have been together since high school and have kids and we were very into the church for years. We’ve been out of the church for a few years now and have been exploring sexually together. Sharing her has been one of my fantasies forever and it’s been our fantasy now for a couple of years. We’ve played online and shown off, etc. But now we’re seriously taking steps to step into the lifestyle and have an encounter with another M.

Here’s our problem…we don’t have anyone to talk to 😅

Where we are now is we’ve decided that when we do this, we want to start our journey at Secrets first. We’ve read WONDERFUL reviews and all of you here that have responded to other posts we’ve posted have been so encouraging and kind. So now everyday we talk about what we want to do poolside, in the hot tub, in the playroom etc. But I’d be lying if I said there still weren’t nerves around the unknown. My wife said to me the other day “I wish there was a wife like me who can speak to my fears and answer my questions from experience.” And I thought, “I’m sure there is!! Why not ask?”

So I’d love to talk to a husband who’s been in a similar place and I’d love for my wife to talk to a wife who’s been in a similar place as well.

So we’d love to talk to a swinger couple who are Secrets vets!

Bonus points if you can relate to any of this: - Did you used to be religious and therefore sexually repressed? - Did you start only sharing one of you? - Are you married with kids and have to navigate that too?

If you wouldn’t mind chatting with some newbies, we’d love to talk.