I’m taking my bf for his birthday next weekend. He’s into BDSM and enjoys people watching, watching people have sex, and we are going with the aim to be more voyeurs this time (but technically very open to all sorts of shared activities if the right opportunities are there). We are not shy at all and don’t want to just people watch from afar, but specifically hoping to watch people having sex/sexually explicit acts etc.

DUNGEON QUESTIONS I know for sure I want to go to the dungeon (is that “club swinkster”?) with him. Does it matter which day to go? We would probably be a Friday or Saturday evening. Which is better for watching?

LOGISTICS QUESTIONS From what I understand we just show up and fill out paperwork and pay the day of? Nothing to do in advance? We live kinda close so I wasn’t wanting to get a room. Not interested in the pool party aspect so seems showing up around 9pm looks like a good time for the club.

SUGGESTIONS! For a more voyeur-focused first time visit, do you have any suggestions? Please share!! I am trying to plan out all the details so we can have a great experience! For our wish list activities above, what is best?

WHAT TO WEAR? If we want to do the dungeon and club, what are women and men expected to wear? I see a mix of lingerie or party dresses, “dressed to impress” seems pretty open to interpretation?