(P.S. I went by myself so this is just my experience.) I finally got to visit Secrets and honestly it wasn't what I expected it to be, or maybe my hopes were too high. I was by myself pretty much the entire night, just walking around and sitting by the bar in my lingerie. Said hello to a few people and just got a hello back. Then this single guy ask me if I can go into the play room with him cause only couples are allowed in. So I did it cause i wanted to see what the play room was all about. But going in there with him was a mistake and now I see why most places don't want single men,. The whole time we were there he was just being thirsty and didn't really understand boundaries. So I left shortly after. I haven't written it completely off, I would love to go again and try to see if I can have a different experience but I don't even know when I'm going to have that courage again. If anyone have any pointers for me as a single female trying to navigate the LS please let me know.