We have a lot of you younger guys inquiring about our experience. We had a wonderful night with a gorgeous couple. I see a lot of the young folk (and older ages too) really trying to get in but being unsure, and also trying to network and not knowing the ins and outs of this community which is so "hidden". It could one partner that's unsure, and sometimes both.

We just wanted to let everyone in that place mentally know, take your time with it. Go slow, try a soft swap then take time to process it before intensifying again, and at the same time understand that doing the real thing will never be anywhere near a fantasy even if they help to get ready. At the end of the day everyone is different when it comes to time, it's the indifference in the aftermath and how people realized they were fearing a molehill that everyone tend to be equal in.

This takes maturity, openness, direct communication, and assertiveness of self; know in your heart that you will commit to this. Finally, BE LOYAL TO YOUR FUCKING SPOUSE.

There will be bad experiences, there will be good, and there will be unbelievably great experiences, this is why its called a lifestyle, because it takes commitment and effort to get the best out of it.

With that said, my wife was on cloud9, and I came so hard and got fucked so good my hearing went blank for a couple minutes. 💦💀

Y'all youngins need to start spreading the word and getting less shy. Believe it or not hookup and swinging is for people that take their relationship seriously, responsibly, and lovingly.

We are not veterans to this ourselves, but it really does feel as if some need to speak on behalf of this silent crowd.