Hello! My wife (27f) and I (27m) have recently come to the realization that we are poly and this is all new for us, a night at the resort seems like a good way to dip our toes in with no strings attached to see how we like the lifestyle, but I have a few questions;

My wife is super attractive and mostly fit so I have no doubts that people will be attracted to her and such. As far as I go however, I have an attractive face but I am still overweight, and as far as dick size I am girthy and a little over 6”. I guess my question is will that be a problem in any way? Like do you guys think we will struggle to find people interested in us because of me? (Looking for blunt, honest input, don’t worry about hurting my feelings.)

Also, if we were to get a room, I see on the website that it’s about $180 per night after fees, but what would you expect the real cost would be per night? Any hidden fees or costs to know about?

I see that single men are permitted, does anyone have negative experiences with that aspect? Like as far as being aggressive or any non consensual type of activity? What is the policy if we are uncomfortable with someone’s actions?

And last question, are we able to just have sex openly wherever or is the idea to meet others and bring them back to a room?

Again, this is literally the first time that I’m looking into anything like this so if any of the questions that I have are strange or things that I shouldn’t be asking, please let me know that as well, thank you for your time and input!