After months of talking about it and reading reviews like the one Im about to write the wife and I finally booked a room and stayed Saturday 7-27. Writing the review because when deciding to go it really helped us get a feel for the place and make the decision so I wanted to do the same for others on the fence , and hopefully help them.
I guess to give a little preface before the actual review. We have never swapped, we're interested and a lot of our play at home involves toys for me and her that give the fantasy of other people being there, we just haven't been ready or caught lighting in a bottle as me and her like to say for it to happen and we're both ok with that. But with that in mind while we were interested in making it happen we agreed before the trip that for the first time there we would just play together. We agreed after the trip that it really helped take the pressure off and nerves away. I think that was one of the most important things to do before you go. Talk about everything know your rules and boundaries and most importantly make sure it's something you both want, not just one person doing it to make the other happy. Make sure you are not pushing your SO in to an uncomfortable place and just let things evolve naturally.
Check In: check in was good went fairly fast, lobby was super clean, remember one of the few places clothes are mandatory and you will sign a million pieces of paper so don't get impatient. We tried to pick a weekend there was no events we didn't want it empty but we also didn't want it crazy busy. We got there around 2 on Saturday and from the front and lobby you can't really see what's happening inside , but we went around the corner to our room you can see down hallways and get a glimpse in to the pool area and we could see that there were a ton of people and the nerves kinda hit hard for both of us. But we are the "when in Rome" type people so it didn't slow us down.
Pool: like I said we got there at 2 the pool area was packed the main pool especially but we managed to find a chair and a spot in the smaller pool pretty quickly. The nerves were Def going especially when deciding if we were gonna go clothes no clothes a lot of insecurities flowing in your thoughts. She decided on a thong and that was all and I went with a pair of swim trunks. Walking in it was a bit overwhelming but as we took it all in the vibe was amazing all different body types everyone having a good time and super comfortable being clothed or not and it really helped us relax and enjoy it. There is only one bar and it was crowded but you can order drinks on your phone and pick them up from a different location closer to the gate. It was quick and easy and the option we used. Prices were typical for a bar 10 a cocktail 6 a beer they had a happy hour and it was a few dollars cheaper. As for play around the pool it was happening but not in the magnitude i guess I had picture before going. Everyone at least in the daytime was being some what discreet most of it was happening in the pool under water. We went for it in the pool and found out it was a major turn on for us both to have people watching.
Food : We kept it simple got a Ceasar wrap and an order of coconut shrimp. Both were way better then we were expecting in fact it may have been one of the best Ceasar wraps we ever had. Shrimp were restaurant quality we didn't care for the sauce with it, it was like a cocktail with pineapple it wasn't bad just not our cup of tea for coconut shrimp. Prices were fair I think like 12 bucks each.
Playroom: We went to the playroom early around 7. A thunderstorm came through and shut the pool down for a bit. So kinda in boredom and looking for something to do we decided to go. We were hoping that because it was early it wouldn't be crazy in there but with the pool closed we thought there would be people in it. To our surprise it was completely empty we were kinda shocked. Everything was clean and they give you sheets to use and take when you are done. It felt really cold in there when we first walked in but honestly was perfect for playing. We played for awhile and another couple came in and sat a few beds away and watched. I thought it was gonna creep my wife out a bit and got a little nervous that she was gonna want to leave but much to my surprise I got a fuck me doggy so they can see my ass. Which drove me wild .... if you wanna put on a show challenge accepted. We played for about a half an hour with them watching and playing a bit the whole time. We loved it but if it's not your thing they have private rooms with doors and blinds for a little more private experience.
Room: We were in room 115 and we loved it. It wasn't super fancy it was done in a classic rock theme. Room was super clean. Bathroom could have used a little updating but wasn't bad enough to be an issue. Our favorite part with our new found exhibitionism love was that it had a sofa right in front of the window with a spot light and all kinds of lighting to put on a show and that we did. Lots of DP with toys and me and lots and lots of visitors that stopped to watch. My wife was surprised how many women were stopping , locking eyes with her and cheering her on. Was an amazing experience! This being an old hotel turned in to condos it is set up perfectly in my opinion for what it is now. Every room has a window looking in to play going on. It was fun just walking around and seeing what everyone one else is doing. But again if you want more private all blinds can be shut.
We didn't check out much else so I can't really give a review on it but the things we did do we thoroughly enjoyed. My wife is attractive so I guess some where in my mind I was worried about guys being creeps but it was a complete non issue everyone was very respectful and really doing their own thing. Felt like being at any where else really but people were naked and some were having sex. Like I said we agreed to not swap so we weren't really looking for it but we did feel like their were opportunities if we wanted to if it's what you were looking for. We are very social people so I think that would help also if that is what you are in to. If you are shy and it's harder to talk to people it may be a bit tougher. Overall it was an amazing experience we stopped at another hotel on the way home and had some of the best sex we had in awhile 1. Because of how turned on we were by the whole thing 2 . Because honestly I think we felt a lot closer and more comfortable in our relationship when we left. We did leave wanting more and I think that helped with the overall experience. If you are thinking of going do it. The thing that is perfect about Secrets is it really feels like you can do as much or as little as you want and everyone is OK with that.
We will Def be back!!!
Thank you for the in depth review canβt wait to go someday.
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