So many questions about how, when, what to expect, etc….

There is a formula for doing Secrets right. Unless you’re in the top 10% of objectively hot people, odds are that just showing up is not going to pay off. If you are like us and hesitant to approach strangers, you’ll likely wander around all night, see some naked folks you may or may not be attracted to, and depart. Don’t feel bad. We are all terrified to approach strangers, which is why no one will approach YOU.

This is written from the perspective of a heterosexual couple. This approach would work for anyone though.

To get the most from your visit, do some pre-work.

1- set up a paid profile on SDC.com with pics of both of you. This is the preferred platform in Central & South FL. On a given weekend we’d estimate that 80% of Secrets guests are locals from within 100 miles.

Then do the following: A. RSVP to the secrets parties advertised on the dates you’re attending. B. Post travel plans listing the dates you’ll be in the area. C. Peruse the party guest lists and reach out to couples you’re interested in. If you connect, make a plan to meet up. exchange contact info or agree to visit each other’s rooms.

2- Join the Secrets Hideaway private page on Facebook.
A. About a week out from your visit, post in the group with a quick bio and pics of both of you. Invite interested parties to message you privately. B. Join the private chats associated with the page. Use those forums to connect with others.

The goal here is to pre-plan interactions with a few couples so that you’re not going in “cold”. Yes, it takes time & effort, but if you do this, you will have a MUCH better time. If you connect beforehand, people will attend secrets on a particular night just to meet you!