This is my first post ever. Please, be gentle with me.

Hello,

For privacy sake my name is Charlotte. I am a 30yr old black female that lives in the greater Seattle area. I'm a single mom that works two jobs. I wouldn't say I'm drop dead gorgeous, but I would say a solid 7 ( my friend who encouraged me to make this post would say I'm an 8). I'm plus size with stretch marks, rolls, thick thighs and big breasts (picture a size 18/20 women).

Now for the real stuff...

My sex life is not anywhere close to where I would like it to be. I feel like I'm in a constant state of horniness. Recently I've been living through these reddit posts, and event gotten off to quite a few of them.

One thing I've gathered from Reddit is that this is the place we come to fill certain needs that some of us are too... cautious to say out loud.

Here is my confession/want/desire...

I am looking for a FWB, but not just any FWB. I need someone who is also willing to be a mentor.

Now, I'm not trying to sound like I have a big ego (because I don't) when I say this next part. I have NEVER gotten a complaint. The first time I gave a BJ the guy stopped me 3 separate time to confirm I was telling the truth because "This is too fucking good to be your first." It definitely was 😊. My BD craves my pussy and head game( but I'm not going down that road again). I've been complimented on my pussy a few times. Every guy I've had sex with wants more. Turns out that's a family thing 🤭.

The reason I feel I need a mentor is because I want to build my repertoire and gain confidence in using my body to GIVE pleasure.

For example:

Riding isn't my favorite. Part of it is I don't like the control it gives me, but, the other part is that I don't feel I'm good at it. I have a hard time finding a rhythm, and that results in me being super self conscious to the point where I just want to stop. 🤷🏽‍♀️

Not only would I like more confidence in how I use my body to bring pleasure to my partner, but there are things I've always wanted to try, but had no partner that was willing. Some are listed below:

Bondage Edging Threesome (MMF and FFM) Exhibitionism Voyeurism Some sharing/free use

Does that sound super vanilla?? I guess that's another part of it. I want to explore what IS NOT vanilla 🚫. I want to try new positions and incorporate toys (never been a thing in the past. I don't even have any, but I'm working on that).

I don't consider myself a size queen. I think the biggest I had was about 6" or 7" (average?), but not very girthy. So, I guess this could change. 😉

Now for the selfish FWB side...

Sex has always either been rushed (for life reasons) or not able to give 100% because there are other people in the house and my partner doesn't want others to hear. Fuck. I want to be heard. I want my body worshipped. I want to take my time when it comes to sex, at least a few times. Fast and hard is always great, but I want to experience slow, grinding, deep fucking. I want my body worked to the point I'm begging for more, harder, deeper, faster because the slow grinding has wound me up so tight that one hard and deep thrust will send me over the edge.

I know things aren't going to be rainbows and unicorns immediately. We will need to learn the best form of communication with each other and build trust. Especially for some of the things I would like to try. However, I'm one to put 100% into any relationship I have (familial, friendly, romantic, sexual, etc.)

Now, a condom will be needed. My body doesn't take BC well after having my kid. A clean bill of health is an absolute on both sides.

Here's the big question...

Is there a man out there that can fuck me the way I want to be fucked? Is there a man out there who is patient enough to be my mentor in pleasure.

P. S. It doesn't have to be a man. It could be a couple.