Are you living a life where you have just about everything your heart desires… except exploring those deeper desires? Maybe I can help.

I’ve been active with BDSM and related kinks for over two decades now. I’m 43, by the Downtown Seattle area, and probably like you - am a successful professional who likes to indulge in kink after stressful work. Makes for a complete life, right? I’m well cultured and can speak at length about cinema and good food, and at the same time, like to get into a deep exploration of our deeper instincts. I care about leaving your life better for having known me. I’m tall and healthy, and although I enjoy a size contrast with my female subs, that’s no limit.

My specialty, if you can call it that, is mentoring girls who others would suspect would never be into this. You don’t openly look for this. Tell me if this speaks to you: you’re looking for a safe, secure private arrangement to be taught. Maybe you’ve done a lot of vanilla play but want to get wilder. Maybe you haven’t found the right fit for your fantasies. You’re not looking for love, but want a man who is dependable, emotionally available, who you might eventually bare your soul to… trust with your darkest secrets. Well, I’ve accumulated a lot of perspective over the years, and the most exciting part of this for me is helping you grow.

Here are some things you might find interesting, it’s going to be lengthy and specific because I know what I want, and I expect you to as well…

I adore smart women. I’ve dominated doctors, scientists, high-achieving scholars, fashion designers, various execs, even creative prodigies. Spanning ages, backgrounds, beliefs - we have kink in common. I’m welcoming if you’re fairly new to kink, and aren’t sure what’s the next step. Women who are accomplished or up-and-coming, who nonetheless seek a secure place to surrender and let it all out. Women who like to be challenged who I can learn something from in kind, as we find memorable moments amidst what is often a confusing and crazy life.

One of my biggest turn-ons is to listen to a woman’s fantasies with an open mind, then describe from my experiences what I’ve done that’s similar, and how we could make it really happen for you. For example, I am not naturally into DD/LG, but learned how to become more proficient at it with past subs who shared their desires.

While ongoing is preferable, if you just want to do a one-and-done to check it off your bucket list, we can do that too. It’s its own thing and I have some great memories with girls who wanted to submit for a night, then continue on with their lives, with no one else the wiser. Their souvenirs to keep.

I was mentored in “old school” BDSM traditions, a dying art these days, and I want to pass that onto you. It provides structure for girls who need it the most. Protocol, routine, discipline, control. Allow me to open you up, physically and mentally. If you earn it, I’ll collar you, mark you as mine. I’m a great choice if you want to feel the thrill of fear mixed with pleasure, anxiety intermingled with exhilaration, but need to count on me to hold you and tell you everything’s going to be ok.

I am very much into helping you to explore the boundaries of being consensually used so you may express yourself fully. We can start with mild exercises and escalate to the full-on depravity, where you can’t believe what you’re doing for me as you comply and do as you’re told - and yet, it feels so right. I can be disciplinary with a firm hand, and hold you accountable for goals. I will ensure that all three of your holes get the use you crave. And plenty of hugs and aftercare checking in on you to see how you’re feeling.

I have a thing for semi-public play. I know how to do it safely but in an exciting way, so you don’t have to worry about getting arrested. After dark, us creatures of night. Inquire within.

I am sensual. I like sensory deprivation and even if you’re blindfolded and servicing me. I am great with coordination and if you ever want to be shared with other men, well, I’ve done a lot of that too. I’m mature enough to not be jealous, and to explore your potentially insatiable appetite to be used by multiple males.

I am very responsive and like receiving head (I like to return the favor), and giving feedback. I am not one of those guys who’s quiet during sex, and whether it’s moaning with pleasure or giving you affirmations, you’ll be sure to know how good a job you’re doing. I am very praise-oriented when it comes to training.

One of the better things I’ve done is helped women who’ve been through abusive and traumatic relationships - both vanilla and BDSM - and helped orient them towards a direction of empowerment, using kink as a tool to reframe past memories and move forward.

Throughout it all, I just ask that we treat each other with mutual respect. Have your life together as I do mine. Be mature enough to let me know if you’re interested in diving into this deeper with me. And if we decide it’s not working out, let’s be good humans and talk it through.

Still with me? I'd love to hear from you, please send me a detailed introduction of you. Pictures can wait if you’re feeling shy or want to be discreet at first, this is far from my first rodeo so I understand. Isn’t it time to take my hand so I can guide you to adventure?