Yes, we'll get to my dark secret. But first, let me be polite and start slow :)

How is your life right now? Is it what you expected? Do you wake up each day energized and excited? Or, do you think you're capable of more? Being the type of woman you fantasized about when you thought what you'd do when you got older? When you think about the life you wanted versus what you have, are you really ready to settle?

Or.

Are you truly ready to work towards that life of adventure and excitement you dreamed of? The one where you have that powerful man who leads you in every way and ensures that power exchange, kink, and primal intimacy are intertwined in your daily life.

You deserve that type of man, don't you? A Dominant man who you have an undeniable chemistry with, and who's deep and intimate connection is one you can't even begin to articulate. One who can provide for you and create a life of stability and financial security, that's filled with laughter, happiness, and hugs. Especially, that man loving you in a way that you didn't know could exist and the thought of that love ever stopping was enough to make you faint.

Are you the type of woman who will say fuck yes to all of that?

Well then, what about if it also meant you'd be embracing his dark secret?

For you see, I will not only provide you everything I've said, but you need to know my dark secret is that I want to OWN you in every way. EVERY. WAY. I mean on the microscopic level where I learn everything about you, shape you to my will, and own you.

Are you prepared to embrace that lifestyle where you see me as your everything and I see you as MINE? Even as the world sees us as that cute couple with the undeniable chemistry.

I will be your leader on OUR never ending journey into this lifestyle of excitement, debauchery, and adventure. I will be your experienced and patient guide and hold you tight while you descend with me into this world of such intense emotion and intimacy that you'll truly feel you're living for the first time - even as you're kneeling in front of me.

I plan on training you and developing you at both a macro and micro level such that you'll blossom into an incredibly confident, put together, worldly, and sexually adventurous submissive. Embracing the role of a submissive isn't about losing power, it's about embracing your purpose, supporting your Dom, and most especially allowing yourself to live the life that makes you truly happy.

You're going to not just be allowed in, but encouraged to understand my dark mind and use it for your own inspiration. You see, as we grow together, your anxiety will fall away as your confidence grows and you understand that within the safe space I create you can truly be yourself.

The pure primalness of our connection will be something no one else understands except us - and we'd both have it no other way.

As a Dom, you should know I have over a decade of experience and have put together an in-depth program of courses to ensure you're able to become the submissive I need. Your experience doesn't matter because you'll be shown exactly what to do and how to do it. You'll be encouraged to ask every question you have. Most importantly, you will not be rushed and understand that by going at your pace the trust I'll create with you will never be broken.

Have you ever been in a relationship where you don't have to guess about anything, you know at the start you can ask any question you want, and especially that your partner doesn't expect you to be perfect in any way?

While I don't like to brag, I am considered a catch and the other sides of me are something that you need and want in a partner, and especially YOUR leader. I'm a real man who takes responsibility, clearly communicates, and handles my business. The rest of my life is very put together and I will both teach you and lead you in those aspects. I believe that you will both empower me to grow while also learning to do what I need, when I need it.

You should know, your body and especially your mind will become my play toy. I'll use and abuse them in both the sweetest and hardest ways you want and need. Eventually, you'll want nothing more than to be used by me. Simply because that's when you feel connected to me the most :)

Now that you know my secret, I also need to confess two things:

1. In the past, younger submissives have asked me to train them and I had to turn them down as I haven't felt comfortable with more than a few years younger. You see, I believe I'm a good man and don't want to take advantage of them. Yet, at the same time I've come to realize I'm also taking away their agency. I've worked on myself, and am ready to train a younger woman - as I also know that I will be able to truly create a safe environment where she can learn and grow.

2. I haven't been able to truly let go and embrace myself. It's not always easy, I understand if you're interested but not sure if you're ready. I was there as well. But, I've worked on myself and I'm ready to embrace my true nature. Previous submissives have begged me to go further and teach more. But again, it's not always easy embracing your dark side. Through work on myself and creating a structured way to do so, I'm ready to completely let go.

Most submissives ask me who and what I'm looking for and while I don't necessarily have a personality or body type I am looking for, a woman who's interested in what I described and truly wants this deep connection is the key. It's a bonus if your interests include any of: fitness, service, nutrition, affectionate degradation/humiliation, cooking, kink, writing, comedy, free use, travel, sex.

To be clear, I'm looking for something real and in person. I'm wanting to get to know the real you - not the one on socials or dating apps. That also means having voice calls to truly get to know each other. Then, eventually meeting in a month or so.

Now, if you're still reading I know what I wrote connected with you. I'd like to leave you with one pertinent saying: It's better to look back and life and say "I can't believe I did that", than to look back and say "I wish I did that"...