It's not fully relevant as I'm still very young and haven't started T yet (currently 19) but I have always wanted at least one child possibly two but never really wanted to be pregnant, now I've figured out that it was most likely due to me being a trans man that I didn't want that. I'm now in a relationship with my gf that is also trans (mtf) and we both have decided that yes, we want kids in the future, we're both leaning towards surrogacy as a first choice but that's not legal here so since I really want I biological child I know I'll cave and just be pregnant myself and just deal with the dysphoria, however my gf says that she would feel bad and dysphoric for putting me in that situation (even if I say that it's okay)

I'm also curious in general so more questions Can one choose to have a C-section instead of a "natural" birth? How is the pain? How is the dysphoria? How did it affect your partners?