I’ve found myself checking in here more and more frequently over the last few months, after being away for years. It’s not that I have been devoid of sex, or human touch. I’ve had recent hookups from conventional dating apps and from night outs, but an itch has been breaching the surface of late, and it happens to be my Moby Dick.

I’ve posted and replied on here many years ago, to varying degrees of success. Of course, I’ve waded my way through sellers, and guys masquerading as women, but there have been countless meaningful conversations with actual verified women, but for whatever reason, like Captain Ahab, the quest to have unforgettable evening with a stranger from Reddit, drifts below the surface, just out of reach.

I’m 35, single and stay in the South Side of Glasgow with my 15 year old son. I have no idea why I’ve linked this post with Moby Dick - I’ve never read it! Perhaps it’s a sea related thing as I have a love of the ocean, and all my tattoos represent such (I’m fairly tattooed). My other physical traits be that I am fairly hairy (head, face & body), be of average height, and well rounded dad bod. I apparently still have my physical charm for whatever reason. Mentally, I’m fairly well rounded also. I work a high pressure job, I try and take everything in life with positivity and possibility and I occasionally like to let my hair down and attend gigs.

Sexually, I enjoy BDSM (switch), and denial - both on the giving and receiving spectrum. My junk is adequate, measuring 6.5” by 5.5” girth. I’m willing consider most kinks, and I don’t judge, but there are limits that do have. I’d be keen to get back to the youthful ways of tantra and lasting for hours. That will require practice however so perhaps not be expected of this meet. But physical and sexual requirements are not crux of my post.

The key to this quest of mine is not simply just the total exploration of your body physically, but also emotionally and psychologically. I wish for us both to take a journey of self and sexual discovery that touch the inner sides of our souls and spirits. To create a momentary connection that while the ecstasy pulses, we’re not sure if it were a minute, an hour, a day or a week. This will forge a deep rooted pillar in our lives we’ll never taste again. And to do all of that, never knowing your true name. That is my white sperm whale.

Will you be the Moby to my Dick?

To set expectations, I will be travelling around Europe for 3 weeks from tomorrow so this isn’t something I envision happening imminently. I’d also like to propose that we actually meet for a coffee firstly also. My recommendation would be if we make it past that point, to rent a cabin somewhere to help us with spiritual connection, and having somewhere where be can explore ourselves in totality - perhaps even with mushrooms if you are comfortable and experienced with those. Not compulsory.

Ages 23 Preferred body shape: Average