If you've decided to click here you must undoubtedly believe that good sex could only ever be enhanced by also being in the pursuit of collective scientific enquiry. Agreed! So here's what I want to find out as a gal with an insatiable massage kink - do many men share my enthusiasm? Personal experience so far has not been promising, but I figure there must be plenty of guys who love incorporating it into sexy times too.
I mean how could you not enjoy it? It's relaxing, a natural way to transition from a friendly chat to intimate touch, an AMAZING way to get turned on during foreplay, and maybe even practically beneficial in avoiding those annoying muscle cramps that take you down at the most inopportune moments (utter speculation disclaimer).
Importantly, I think it's just as enjoyable giving or recieving, so if your enthusiasm goes both ways too we're looking at the prospect of an excellent time!
What I'm looking for: I really prioritize qualities like respect, safety, good communication, cleanliness and shared joy for intelligent and funny conversation over any other specifics, and ideally you'll have a similar approach. Saying that though if you tell me you're a trained massage therapist expertly able to relieve my neck tension I'll unlikely be thinking much about the quality of your anecdotes...
What you're looking for: Lots of massage sex obviously, but if you figure from this post we might have other commonalities that make it worth chatting go for it, I enjoy hearing what other things turn people on too. What's important is that you value (and enjoy!) having a decent level of conversation to build rapport and shared understanding before taking anything offline. If that's not your thing, I'm unlikely to be what you're looking for!
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