Hey everyone. I’m terrified!

So, to start, I met this girl on Tinder, probably mid September. We had talked, she seemed cool, then we both said we weren’t looking for anything serious (obviously going to hookup). We were trying to plan something for a couple weeks, it didn’t work out, and we stopped texting. (Side note: she followed me and was texting me from her “finsta” instagram account for close friends after the initial app convo)

Earlier this month (December), i match with the same girl on Bumble. We start texting non her main instagram account. We catch up very briefly, and I tell her I happened to be dogsitting like 20 minutes from her (i live around an hour away usually). She tells me to come over so I do. We didn’t click much or anything, it’s one of the more nonchalant hookups i’ve had. we no longer follow eachother on main or private ones.

Dec 4th: I went over, within 3 minutes we ended up in the bed. I used my own condom, i took it off after, i didn’t see or feel any leak/tear at all. I made the mistake of just putting it in the trash can and not flushing. She was super casual. She was wearing a stupid ass hat when she got me at the garage that said “who ate all the pussy” (huge red flag, shoulda left). She didn’t care to snuggle after or act insecure like a lot of girls. It was super CASUAL. Can’t stress that enough. Then, after telling me she lived alone, a roommate walked in the apartment, casually nodded “hi”, and walked into his room. (which made me feel like he wasn’t shocked at all to see a random guy there). i leave, that’s all. she doesn’t try to talk after or anything, it’s clearly a hookup for her too.

Dec 20th: she texts me saying she missed her period on the 17th and i was the only one she slept with since july because of a health condition she wouldn’t share.

The sketchy part to me, is she said that i’m the only one she had sex with because once she healed i was in town and it just worked out. The reason why that’s weird is because i went back to our older texts, and she had been trying to get me to come over for almost three months on and off. It makes me think it’s unlikely that I’d be the only guy she slept with, and he story doesn’t make sense. ALSO, her bio on her finsta says something along the lines of “ratchet shit”, which i’d guess isn’t someone who’s very sexually conservative

After she told me, I told her I’d split the cost, it takes two and i’m not in a good place right now.

She threatened telling her parents and mine, (we’re both over 21 so there’s no need for that)

I told her I’d figure out the my half and that’s fair.

She tells me it’s $800 for the pill. i look it up, it says “up to $800, $575 at planned parenthood”(convenient she was offered the most expensive one). She also tells me she’s in NY until february. then when i said i’d take her to the doctor in february she said she’s going to be in NY until spring semester because her moms sick.

She gets defensive when i ask if it could be someone else, she tells me to stop trying to find a way out of it and take responsibility

I want to do the right thing, but i don’t wanna feed a scam if she’s just sleeping with a bunch dudes and sending them an old pregnancy test two weeks later. She offered a paternity test but that’s not possible until later in the pregnancy and i don’t want to wait if there is a chance it’s mine. I’ve since confided in my mom, she’s on edge about it and wanted to stalk the girl but there isn’t much to check out.