I’ve been reading posts in r/SantaRosaR4R and r/SluttyConfessions and I wonder if many women enjoy these activities listed below?  Maybe I’m showing my age but on a first date, whether serious dating or a hookup, do women really want to do many or even most of these things?

• Anal sex
• Choking
• Forced deep throating
• Slapping
• Splitting
• Fisting

If after being together for a while –  whether dating or FWB/NSA –  a couple wants to explore the limits of pain and pleasure that’s great, but does every first date have to be all about domination for the man and submission/humiliation for the woman? In my experience a longer, more satisfying relationship is possible when men don’t treat women like a disposable sex slave to be abused from the start. Am I the only man who thinks this way? Do any women reading this post want an equitable relationship, even for a 1 time encounter?