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The R4R subreddit dedicated to the San Diego area.

Please read and respect the rules, we are attempting to build/maintain a high quality R4R local community and would love your help doing so.

Enjoy your stay here ;)

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Subreddit Rules

Updated Aug 20, 2024
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Wheaton's Law

Wheaton's Law is an internet axiom which states "Don't be a dick." It was originally used in the context of sportsmanship in online gaming but its scope was eventually expanded to apply to life in general.
https://knowyourmeme.com/memes/wheatons-law

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No Sellers/Transactions

  1. This isn't the place to find a plug, solicit your services/yourself/your content for money, etc. Please keep that in mind before making that post. To make it crystal clear, NO SELLERS/TRANSACTIONS/DRUGS ALLOWED. This will get you an immediate, permanent ban
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18+ Only

This subreddit is 18+. No minors allowed whatsoever. Any post by or referencing a minor will also get you an immediate, permanent, non-appealable ban

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No Personal Info

No personal information. The mods will work as hard as possible to keep the malicious folks out, but we can only do so much. Protect your own information with your best judgment, and sharing others info (doxxing/witchhunting) will, you guessed it, get you banned

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The titles of submissions must be properly formatted

The titles of submissions must be properly formatted or they will be deleted. Posts must start with an age and then what you are seeking in []'s or ()'s, The format for post titles is:
[] -

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Formatting

The titles of submissions must be properly formatted (examples shown below)

32 [R4R] Specific part of San Diego - Redditor seeking redditor

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Exchanges for money, goods, or services are strictly disallowed.

Exchanges for money, goods, or services, are strictly prohibited. If you are doing something in exchange for something else, it will most likely fall in this rule. Contact the mods for clarification or questions.

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No dick pics

FOR THE PENIS-HAVERS, there's an overrepresentation of this demographic on here, and not everyone wants to see a bunch of dicks on the page when opening the sub. Posts with a dick pic will be deleted

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No karma farming

If your account has activity on karma farming subreddits you will be banned. You should gain karma via meaningful interactions with other reddit users.

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Karma

If your account has activity on karma farming subreddits you will be banned. You should gain karma via meaningful interactions with other reddit users.

Non-verified accounts require 50 post karma and 25 comment karma to post to the sub.

Additionally, if you've been permanently banned on here before for any reason, it doesn't go away because you've made a new account. Nor if you're in the middle of a temporary ban.

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No Advertising

This subreddit does not allow any form of advertising, including but not limited to promotions, solicitations, or self-promotion. Any posts or comments that are deemed as advertising will be removed at the discretion of the moderators.

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ONE post every 48 hours

ONE (1) post every 48 hours. This is a high-traffic sub, so this hopefully helps keep repetitive posts down

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Responding to posts not targeted to you

Please do not respond to a post that is not targeted to you. For example if the post has the F4F flair, and you are a male, do not comment/respond to the post.

Help keep our community high quality and report this rule being broken when you see it!

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No harassment, abusive language or threats

Abusive language or harassment is an immediate, permanent ban. This includes responding to posts that aren't aimed at your demographic (you're a cis M responding to a F4F post, etc.)This also includes: hate speech, using slurs/derogatory language, or threats of any kind. If this happens in your DMs, send screenshots of the convo to the mods and the perpetrator will be banned. NONE OF THAT is welcome here, and we have zero tolerance for it

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