I'm a 30 year old passable sissy fem boy seeking one high quality dominant top "daddy" type who is respectful of boundaries, safe, clean and discreet. I'm not looking for just anyone on here and willing to take my time until I find the right person.

I'm 5'10, 190lbs, white, toned body type, with naturally long wavy brown hair and blue eyes. I'm told by people in my day to day life that I could be a model and for those who have seen me with makeup say I'm quite passable. So, while I have a pretty face, I don't share face photos until I get to know the person. I workout almost every single day, love to run and do calisthenics. I eat quite a clean diet and take good care of myself.

I'm not someone who is "deep" in the sissy lifestyle, but rather it is more of a deep-rooted fetish for me that began many years ago. I like the idea of secretly submitting myself ass to a dominant man behind closed doors and letting him treat me like a woman. Outside of that, I live a very normal life (straight-acting) and I'm quite busy with a career, friends, hobbies and other obligations. So I'm only looking for a special, long-term connection with someone who is on the same page, and wants to meet only once or twice a month safely and discreetly, no drama.

This is something that I keep separate from my day to day life, and need someone who respects that and also wants the same for themselves. I'm not looking for this to be something that consumes our lives, but rather just a healthy outlet we engage in once or twice a month in order to have our needs met.

The ideal dom I'm looking for is someone who is older than me preferably. I like older dad types, but open to other types of men if the vibe is right. Someone who is dominant, but also a safe, sane and respectful person. I prefer someone who is educated, has good things going for them in life with a career, hobbies and interests like myself. Please be healthy and physically fit, and practice proper hygiene. I'd like someone who prioritizes their health like I do. Again, looking for quality, not quantity. Someone who's willing to take our time getting to know each other online first before meeting, and can hold a conversation.

I also require a full panel STD test before playing, and safe play ONLY. Must be DDF/HIV-.

My kinks include light rough play such as slapping, spitting, being lightly choked, having my hair pulled, dirty talk, etc.

My limits are, and I have ZERO tolerance for these: violence, blood, pain, piss/shit, not into BDSM (no chains, whips, ropes, no restraints of any kind), no weapons of any kind, not into extreme degradation like being called things like a pig or a toilet, not into anything that is unsanitary, not into eating your ass, and not into poor hygiene.

I'm sure there's more but, it's not difficult to see that what I'm asking for is someone who is kinky to a sane degree and not into anything extreme. Again, respect and trust is paramount here. Please be mentally sound. If you struggle with mental health issues, do not reach out to me and go get help, respectfully.

If you feel that you truly resonate with my post, please message me and let's see if we click. I only respond to messages that are literate and detailed like this post. Only saying "hey" won't get me to respond. I'm looking for someone who can really match my energy, because as I said, I am looking for one high quality person and I'm willing to be patient for as long as it takes to find the right person. I'm not going to respond to messages that don't give me a good reason to respond. Thank you.