I have posted this in a couple places and if it is STILL up, then I am STILL looking for the one.  I am not looking for a 'hookup' and my likes and dislikes are things I have spend decades learning about myself.  I have some quirks haha.  I have had a couple people message me asking me to make exceptions on things like "weed" and kids, but I cannot make those exceptions as my life is ready to travel and I am NOT interested in raising more kids.

I am looking for something incredibly unique and I have more to offer than some people may feel they deserve. 

TO SUMMARIZE THIS: I have a nice home to share with someone and they should be a person who is fun, shy, non-smoking of anything, not into PNP and no bedroom related traumas as I enjoy a lot of fun there. I am going to be traveling soon and would love someone kid-free who also does not want kids-who wants to join me on a year or two of amazing sights and places.  Someone able to walk away from their job is preferred obviously but if you work remote then this may be perfect. Ideally I will get to know someone for a month or so while we see how compatible we are.  I don't care about your age, but generally not into men too old, or too young. I am open-minded so please feel free to reach out if you are everything but within the age I am seeking which ideally is 23-50.

Now here is the longer, more detailed version:

I am looking for the man who feels like they don’t fit into the scene. Maybe you are bi (I am pan, but can easily live without one or the other) and feel like you have no place to fit in. I prefer the shy one who has never smoked anything in their life, the 'dork' who would enjoy simple things but would appreciate being spoiled in both big and small ways.  I make good money but we are not looking to “SPOIL” someone in exchange for being my partner. I refuse to blow it on material things when experiences are more important to me so if you are looking for a free ride and fancy things you need to look elsewhere. I can support you, but I want a man who helps budget and is responsible.  I want a man who has maybe been worked to the bone, who is incredibly kind and patient and willing to jump head first into a complex situation.  I would want to see how things go obviously but I have spare rooms I don't need rent for.

I have love to amusement parks and a desire to travel the country-in fact I am in the searching part of getting a large motorhome so I can travel for a year or two across the country while visiting every small town I can find as we mark every state off the list of places I have been.  I do not want kids, and a single father is not in the cards for me as I do not want to be tied down anymore to San Diego. 

I have adult kids who accept everything odd and weird about me and I am hoping you do too!  I need someone with no hangups in the bedroom and more into other sexual things (toys, RP and so much more, to include things like long playing, teasing, etc maybe going both ways. I do tend to lean more into edging, teasing etc, as a submissive or shared experience then just sex.  I had a boyfriend years ago and we explored toys and hand jobs and things, never once having sex and I was fine with that also.  As long as you are a person who is horny a lot.

Someone who agrees they do not want kids is important for me. Non-smoker, non-vape, all that stuff.  If you think you are too skinny, too thick or have never been 'that' guy, I really do not care. I prefer a guy with a little belly or one who is skinny versus the man who is ripped and mega fit.  I have love for thin and thick guys so I could care less if you have a bigger body to go with your loving personality as long as you are healthy enough to explore and hike and play outdoors and be clean.  I really couldn’t care less as I am looking for a simple guy for a complex situation and for that you need to care above all else. I am not looking for a gold-digger and I am not a push-over who can't see that coming from a mile away (had one already in the messages who would not stop trying to ask me details about my income in one way or another)!  I don't care.  I have a lot to offer someone who understands I work a LOT.  I prefer a "DORK" over anything else. I love “GOTH” men but I am open. I can be dominant if you are a younger thin goth man who loves to submit, but I really want to explore my other side, so you would need other be pretty hahahaha, JK.

Honesty is extremely important with me and I do not tolerate cheating and lying but monogamy is not mandatory with me if that is what is agreed to going in, I am flexible. I was that "picked last" kid, the dork and now I am a great guy in a unique position to bring someone into my fold with me.  I just want you to be someone who is clean, showers a couple times a day, is willing to help around the house, able to take any situation and make it shine for those outside looking in.  I am making this long-I know...but I would like to weed out the replies.  And no pets please.  They are a hassle when it comes to travelling.

NOT INTO:

Bad Hygiene
Smokers
Drug users
HUGE preference for CUT vs UNCUT
Anyone with intense medical issues that would prevent travel and exploration.
Having kids or single fathers of younger kids.
Stuck up or rude as I treat people pretty amazing and always give to the less fortunate.
Abusive men, hands should never be laid on someone you love.
If you have a crazy stalker ex you can't quite disconnect from, I don't need the stress.
Traumas that affect how you behave around others, depression, drinking.
Anyone on long-term pain meds, etc.

LIARS. Do not lie to me about things, even the small things, more especially the big things.

NOT BOTHERED BY:

I do not care if you don't own a car or drive
I do not care if you work in fast food, walmart or a damn laundry mat as long as you are a hard working person
I do not care about you being the most girly woman, but please be easy on the eyes lol
Not bothered by your past, will never care about your body count as long as your past relationships do not engage in your new ones.

Hair I prefer trimmed and clean body hair, and don’t really care about the hair on your head lol.

INTO:

I am the man who used to give my last dollar to the person who looked like the needed it more than myself.  I still now hand out money regularly and buy food and meals for people. I run to open doors for the elderly and I have complicated friendships where I am the most reliable person in everyone’s' life.  I am looking for a person who has an easy time smiling and a harder time getting upset.  Someone who is willing to explore in the bedroom without bringing "issues" and "traumas" into those spaces (I like fun and exploration). Someone who is not too tied into a living situation as I would love a person to move in sooner than later once we decide it is something you want.